Solo Sex: Your Single-Handed Approach to Pleasure
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Partnered sex is great and all, but solo sex can offer insane pleasure. Like, we’re talking off the walls, shaking in your boots pleasure. Plus, it’s actually good for you.
In this article, we’ll take a look at what exactly solo sex is, what it does for you, and the best ways to do it. Let’s get started on getting you off.
Let’s Define Solo Sex
Now, we’ll take things all the way back to your sex education years with a simple definition. Solo sex, also known as masturbation, is the act of stimulating your erogenous zones and genitals to achieve sexual pleasure, typically until you ejaculate.
You may have heard someone say, “Masturbation is bad for you.” This person is what’s known colloquially as a liar. Solo sex is a normal and vital aspect of your sex life.
It’s as normal as enjoying MILF porn videos or a creampie compilation—perfectly standard sexual experiences.
What You Gain from Solo Sex (Besides Orgasms)
Cumming is most men’s goal during solo sex…duh. However, there are lots of other powerful perks to masturbating. We wrote a whole article about it, so we’ll summarize the best benefits below:
- Mood booster
- Boost your sex life
- Get better sleep
- Safe exploration
- Reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease
- Natural pain reducer
- And much, much more
Self-pleasure is a one-stop shop for tons of your needs.
Solo Sex & Toys: What Works?
There’s nothing wrong with a little hand action, but a sex toy can take your self-pleasure game from basic to mind-blowing. Most how-to advice on solo sex will tell you to lube up your hand and break out PornHub.
Honestly, it’s not bad advice. From experience, you probably already know that your favorite big tits latina pornstar or BBW fisting vids will get you going in no time. However, solo sex can be even better with the right kind of toy at your side.
Not every device will work for you, so we’ll take a look at the top toys, helping you discover what gets you off.
Fleshlights
The Fleshlight is a top-selling sex toy for a reason. It’s ultra-realistic and designed like your favorite porn stars' actual vagina, dick, or backdoor hole. Check out some of the fantastic options:
- Fleshlight Girls: Most of the Fleshlight Girls toys accommodate lengths up to 9 inches and almost 8 inches in girth. Check the individual toy to determine the exact dimensions and what works best for you.
- Fleshlight Boys: The Fleshlight Boys line lets you feel exactly what your favorite male pornstars backdoor is like. Every bump, ridge, and grip is precisely recreated in these sturdy toys.
- Fleshlight Guys: These long and pleasurable dicks are modeled after top adult stars, allowing you to sink into your ideal fantasy.
So, next time you’re in the mood to watch the busty Autumn Falls or Kenzie Reeves have some rough sex role-play, take out an exact replica of their snatch for an immersive experience.
Strokers
The vibrating stroker is a serious toy that packs a punch. It’s the ultimate endurance trainer, too. The next time your lady decides to show off with a special XXX-rated lingerie striptease, you’ll be ready to last all the way to the end.
Our revolutionary strokers come with adjustable vibration and a tight hold that squeezes every inch. You’ll never get tired of sinking into this magic hole.
Dildos
Here’s the thing: sometimes, a vibrating toy is just too much, and that’s okay. When the vibration leads to overstimulation, turn to dildos instead. The dildos at Fleshlight are ideal. Some pussy or backdoor stretching pair perfectly with high-quality lube and your top porno of choice.
The realistic dildos are ideal for fantasy time. Meanwhile, the HerSpot dildos can be suctioned onto any flat surface, allowing you to ride that dick to your heart's content. These sex devices are extremely versatile, allowing novices and pros alike to get off every time.
Vibrators
Vibrators are for everyone, but they’re especially useful for some solo girl masturbation. Ladies can easily tease their vulvas or labia or press on their clitoris for a stunning female orgasm.
Remember, female masturbation doesn’t have to be complicated. It’s not some mystery. It’s as easy as a superior vibrator, a big ass cumshot porno, and some free time. Next thing you know, you’re in squirt city, baby.
Butt Plugs
These dandy little toys aren’t for the inexperienced or the faint of heart. Still, they'll rock your backdoor hole once you get the hang of them.
The trick is to start small and work your way up. Don’t listen to some amped-up men’s health guide’s advice. They’ll tell you to go hard and go for it. That’s how you rip your butthole (seriously, we’ve been there, it’s not fun).
Instead, focus on enjoying every step of the anal plug journey. Allow the thinnest plug to tug and pull at your prostate, working your way up as is comfortable. You’ll be teasing your hole with the girthiest plugs in no time.
Cock Rings
You’ve seen ‘em. You’ve heard of ‘em. And we know you’ve been a little curious. Cock rings aren’t for everyone, but if you give them a shot, they can revolutionize your self-love game.
Think of these toys as a combination of a blowjob and a teasing handjob. These sensations are extremely pleasurable and will have you positively aching. Here are the proper steps to using a cock ring effectively:
- Get a simple silicone ring: There are lots of other offerings in materials like glass and metal, but it may be best to work your way up there. These materials can be unforgiving.
- Use high-quality lube on your member and the ring: Don’t mess around with bad lube when you’re playing with a cock ring. High-quality lube will give you high-quality sensations.
- Place the ring on your semi-erect or flaccid member: Your cock will be allowed to grow around the cock ring, pleasurably expanding as the ring slowly presses your nerve endings.
- Leave it on for a maximum of 30 minutes: The exact perfect time is different for each person, but after half an hour, you may risk some discomfort or pain. Play around with what works for you.
These tips should have you quacking from cock ring pleasure, and regularly adding it to your solo sex routine will bring loads of fun.
Anal Beads
There’s nothing better than some pulsating beads up your bum. Anal beads are wonderful little toys designed to stimulate your prostate and are excellent at preparing you for anal sex.
The secret to getting the best beads is picking the right size. Ideally, beginners should choose beads that go up in size. This makes for a more customizable experience and allows for easier ass training.
Just don’t forget to lube up, and remember that anal beads pair well with a Fleshlight or Stroker.
Partner with Fleshlight for Satisfying Solo Sex
At Fleshlight, we take pride in our premier offerings of solo sex toys. Our devices are made in the United States with only the best materials.
Plus, all of our devices double for excellent partnered sex toys. So, what are you waiting for? Start jacking off with your next Fleshlight toy today!
